Have you ever opened your eyes after a good night sleep feeling fresh just to find your brain reaching out for a disturbing thought? The one that reminds you that nothing is as good as you felt for those two happy seconds right after you woke up. I know I have! That’s why I noticed that our brain seems to work like a scheduler but for some reason it tends to register and then remind us about problems to solve rather than trigger anticipation that it’s gotta be a wonderful day. And that’s pretty much exactly when and how everyday attraction starts, right at that moment!

Now, the brain isn’t a beast of its own, it’s yours just like your arms, feet or your bellybutton. “Then why does it think about what I don’t want it to?” – you may ask. And the answer is – it’s the Law of Attraction in action. Let’s say, you would like your brain to remind you every morning that you expect lots and bags of money to arrive to you today somehow. But for some reason the brain tells you the very opposite. Since the thinking machine is yours the thought has to do something with You. And it actually does! The brain simply analyzes all the thoughts you think during your day and with the help of the Law of Attraction defines what you really “like” to think about. Then it starts to remind you of that whenever you seem to forget about it. You see, the machine works perfectly!

Now obviously the thought your brain defines you “like” to think may vary from the one you “would like” to in reality. It’s based solely on the percentage of actual thoughts you are thinking. So if your first thought in the morning is “I have $0 in my wallet” it shows what you’ve really paid your attention to during your days.

If you keep in mind the basic principle of the Law of Attraction – like attracts like – you’ll see that the thought of lack of money isn’t that bad. It’s actually good because it alerts you that you’ve got to tip your everyday thoughts towards what you really want so it starts flowing to you. And since you really want it – you better start thinking good thoughts right away because there’s no point to waste your energy on something useless to you. Just think about it!

P.S. – it’s been quite some time since my last post here, but I didn’t abandon this amazing blog. I was simply anticipating the right moment to write something new. (How do I know if it’s right? I just feel it!)

Have a great weekend!

Everything we ever get comes to us with a help of the Law of Attraction. It always brings us the essence of what we feel. The better the feeling is the happier we are. The happier we are the more of what makes us feel happy is going to come by the Law. So the goal is to feel as good as possible and the easy way to do that is to feel thankful for what you already have.

Yes, in order to get what you want you need to be grateful for what’s already on your plate. To some people it may sound like a paradox, because they want something precisely because they are not happy about the way the things are. Indeed, lack always acts as a sparkle for desire. But if the ignition is not the only thing you want, put the pedal to the metal by being thankful for what’s already there in your pocket.

Gratitude is an amazing and universal fuel that feeds the engine of your good feelings. The higher the happiness level is the faster you’ll get what you want. So it would be a great idea to be thankful all day long and even in the middle of the night when you make your sleepy way to the bathroom.

When it seems you’re stuck and it looks like there’s nothing to be grateful for, ask yourself a very profound question – “really?!” Even in the most extreme case of “bad luck” a person can be thankful for at least staying alive and therefore being able to do something about the whole situation. The truth is, if you still care about how the things are – it’s not that bad. (But if we looked for an even deeper truth we’d see that there’s no such thing as bad at all)

Today is the Thanksgiving Day – one of the most meaningful holidays on my list. What a great reminder to be thankful for things and people in our lives and feel the happiness filling our bodies. Wanna try it?

Thank You for reading this post and Happy Thanksgiving!

There’s one thing that lies at the core of every single desire. The thing is contrast and it’s precisely why you start wanting something at all. Think about it – people always want something because they don’t have it. If there was no apparent lack there would be no gain just because it would be unnecessary.

Let’s look at a made up example – a friend of yours buys a brand new smart phone and happily rushes to show it off. It looks good, it does lots of interesting things and you immediately start wishing to have that kind of gadget. Now, before your friend got one, you didn’t even think you needed a smart phone. But just as soon as you noticed your lack of something you began wanting that right away by the rule of contrast.

You see, the fact that you know you don’t have something is great just because now you want it and can get it. If you didn’t experience the contrast, that desire would never flare up. And when there is no wanting there is no getting just because it’s not needed.

To really want some sunshine one needs to get through a rainy day or a pitch black night. You might say that you would want it anyway, but would you? How often are you grateful for a brand new day and another ray of sunlight? How often do you catch yourself being thankful for what you already have? Please, be honest! Notice that you don’t care that much about things you do have. And if there was no contrast at all you wouldn’t care about getting something either. What would be the point if it didn’t change anything?!

So the coolest and deepest thing to understand probably is this: all the unwanted stuff you experience in your life exists so you can know what is wanted. Any contrast situation is necessary at a particular moment that’s why it’s there. It’s good at frequently unseen levels and it’s necessary for your creations through the Law of Attraction.

Everybody has many relationships in their lives – with parents, friends, teachers, lovers, children and so on. Sometimes some of them don’t seem to work that well. If you look at it through the Law of Attraction you’ll see that the problem doesn’t lie in a particular relationship. The problem was attracted by it’s participants.

As always it starts with a thought. Some people think fearful thoughts like “what if I do something wrong”, “what if she doesn’t like what I give her” etc. Others focus on what they don’t like about people they are involved in relationships with. In both cases they think of what they don’t want.

Now, the Law of Attraction brings the essence of what one feels. If you think of something unwanted you naturally don’t feel good and therefore you attract more of that by the Law. So even if a relationship is great at the beginning, it’s going to change if a person starts seeing problems in it.

The quality of a relationship is a matter of attention. If you give it to what you like – it’s going to be amazing all the time, forever and for always. If you don’t think about what might bother you in a relationship you won’t get irritated. If you don’t get irritated you won’t talk angrily with the other half, and then any potential problem will become a simple thing to discuss. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg because the Law of Attraction works through tons of not that obvious to an average human ways.

If you really want to fix a relationship then stop thinking you’ve got something to fix! It all starts in your head. You can’t think of problems and get rid of them because even if you apparently do another one will appear shortly. It’s attraction and it’s governed by the Law. Simply quit using it backwards. Think of what you like about the person you are in a relationship with, notice once again how and why you enjoy the company. Do that instead of giving your attention to “problems” and you’re going to experience that very soon.

Sometimes you can’t start thinking nice things about the other person right away just because you thought too many negative thoughts about them. In that case, make your goal to think positive thoughts about anything or anyone else. If you’re on a good vibe you automatically attract everything great including relationships. Whatever seems to be broken gets fixed by itself. Plus when you get out of negative thinking you’ll easily notice what you like about the other half and by doing so you’ll make the relationship even better.